“A Father’s
Worst Nightmare”
Luke 8:40-42, 49-56 (SBC,
Sligo IE)
5 August 2018
INTRODUCTION:
Being a father is not an easy
job. It never has been, at least not if you are doing it correctly. Bringing
children into the world and then doing your best to see that they turn out to
be good, honest, loving, godly people is a big challenge! And I think that
being a dad to daughters is especially challenging. Raising boys is somewhat
easier for us because from the very start we speak the same language, being
from the same planet and all. But with little girls it’s different. They are a
mystery to us!
That is because little girls are
filled with cuteness and craftiness, sweetness and trickery, coyness and
orneriness, all at the same time. A father is pretty much at sea from day-one.
This beautiful little girl suddenly pops into his life and he has no idea what
to do with her. But in no time at all she has her daddy wrapped around her cute
little pinkie finger. She has herself all entwined in his heart in such a way
that he will never get loose.
TRANSITION:
In our passage for today a man
experiences what would be a “worst nightmare” situation for any loving father.
His little daughter has become ill and she is nearing death. The doctors have
been unable to help her. It is clear that she has very little time left unless
some sort of miracle occurs.
MAIN BODY:
Verse 40: And as Jesus returned, the people welcomed
Him, for they had all been waiting for Him.
·
“And as
Jesus returned…”
Returned from where? It seems that after the casting out of the demons from the
Gadarene demoniac, Jesus and His disciples made their way back up north 13
miles across the Sea of Galilee to the region of Capernaum and Bethsaida. The
text does not tell us exactly where this next event occurred, but it most
likely happened just outside of Capernaum. If you remember last Sunday’s
message you will recall that according to Luke 8:26 Jesus had been ministering
in the area to the north of the Sea of Galilee, especially in the region of
Capernaum. But verse 26 says, “Then they sailed to the country of the Gerasenes, which
is opposite Galilee.” This was the area down on the southeastern
shore of the lake. After Jesus cast the demons out of the possessed man, verse
37 tells us that Jesus and His disciples got back in the boat and headed up
north again toward Capernaum in Galilee.
·
“…the people
welcomed Him, for they had all been waiting for Him.” Wherever Jesus went
there were always crowds of people anxious to see Him and to hear His message.
So now once again Jesus was surrounded by a large crowd of people, pushing in,
wanting to see Him and to touch Him. Moreover, sick people flocked to Him to be
healed. On that day such was the case of one man in particular by the name of
Jairus.
Verses 41-42: And there came a man named Jairus, and he was
an official of the synagogue; and he fell at Jesus’ feet, and began to implore
Him to come to his house; 42 for he had an only daughter, about
twelve years old, and she was dying. But as [Jesus] went, the crowds were
pressing against Him.
·
“Jairus…an
official of the synagogue.” Jairus was one of the Jewish leaders from that region. He
may have been the leader of the synagogue in Capernaum, or he may have been
from one of the nearby towns where Jesus had preached (cf. 8:1). His name was
derived from the Hebrew word, “ya’ir,” meaning “Yahweh enlightens.” In the
Greek text he is called an “ἀρχισυνάγωγος” (archisunágôgos),
meaning “synagogue ruler.” His duties included the conducting of the synagogue
worship and the selection of those who were to lead in the prayer, read the
Scriptures, and preach. There was generally only one archisunágôgos to each synagogue. By the way, if Jairus was the
ruler of the Capernaum synagogue then he very likely was one of the leaders
mentioned way back in Luke 4:31-37 and 6:6-11.
·
Luke
does not give us much in the way of details about the little girl here except
to tell us that she was Jairus’ “only daughter” and that she was “about
12-years-old.” In our world that means that she would have been a 6th
grader, on the line between being a little girl and becoming a young woman. Can
you imagine the pain and grief in this father’s heart? He was desperate to find
help for his little girl. In Mark 5 in the parallel account of this event we
read in verses 22-24, “Then one of the synagogue rulers, named Jairus, came
there. Seeing Jesus, he fell at His feet 23 and pleaded earnestly
with Him, ‘My little daughter is at the point of death. Please
come and put Your hands on her so that she will be healed and live.’ 24
So Jesus went with him. A large crowd followed and pressed around Him.”
Jairus knew that his little girl’s condition was critical and that every minute
counted. If this story had occurred in 2018 she would already be on the
LifeFlight helicopter headed to Sligo University Hospital.
·
Notice
that Mark also tells us, “…[Jairus] fell at His feet and pleaded
earnestly with Him.” Imagine what it cost Jairus to come to
Jesus and publicly ask for His help. He had to lay down his prejudice, his
dignity, his pride, his friends, and his future. This was professional suicide
for him, but he did not care at that moment. Saving his little girl’s life was
his highest priority, far above his own personal interests.
·
Something
else important…in Mark 5:23 the form of the verb here translated “pleaded
earnestly” means he kept on begging, repeatedly and desperately.
He lost all semblance of propriety or formality. This was a desperate father,
on his knees before the Lord, pleading for the life of his daughter. And what
was the result of his plea? Jesus immediately went with him. What relief
Jairus must have felt, knowing that Jesus was on His way to save his little
daughter.
·
But
then the Lord got stopped by the crowd and specifically by a lady who was very
sick and needed help too. We looked at her story last Sunday. What frustration
Jairus must have felt as the minutes ticked by as he watched Jesus deal with
someone else’s problem, someone who in a sense had jumped the queue and crowded
into line and had now put the life of his little girl in even more jeopardy.
Jesus was still talking with the lady that He had just healed on His way to
Jairus’ place when some friends arrived from Jairus’ house with bad news.
Verse 49: While He was
still speaking [to the woman], someone came from the house of the synagogue official, saying, “Your
daughter has died; do not trouble the Teacher anymore.”
·
No
one wants to be the bearer of bad news. It is a horrible job! As a police
chaplain I often had to do death notifications and to deliver other bad news.
Believe me, it is no fun! But I think it is even worse to be on the receiving
end! Imagine Jairus’ pain as he heard those words: “Your little girl is dead. Come home and don’t
bother the Teacher anymore.” Obviously, they had no faith that Jesus
could do anything about the situation. Healing a sick person was one thing, but
raising a corpse was another thing entirely!
·
And
imagine the thoughts that might have started racing around inside Jairus’ head—
“If
Jesus had just been in a little more of a hurry, maybe He could have saved her.
If that sick woman hadn’t
butted in and drawn His attention away maybe my daughter would still be alive.
Or, if I had just left home a
little sooner maybe I could have gotten to Jesus in time.”
Verse 50: But when Jesus heard this, He answered him [Jairus], “Do not be afraid any longer; only believe, and she
will be made well.”
·
Jairus
heard their words and for a moment thought that all hope was gone. Jesus heard
their words and ignored them, knowing full well that He had the power to
bring the girl back to life. In that moment, Jairus had to make a choice about
who to listen to—those who said, “Hope is lost” or the one who said, “Don’t
be afraid, just trust Me.” The English text leaves out the emphasis
that we find in the Greek text. Literally, Jesus said to Jairus: “Stop
fearing! Keep on believing!” Jesus knew that hearing their report had
struck fear into Jairus’ heart, but the Lord urged him not to forsake the faith
that had brought him to Jesus in the first place. Fear is the opposite of
faith. The one condition of God’s working for us is that we trust Him.
·
This
story reminds me of the story of the raising of Lazarus in John 11. Lazarus was
Jesus’ dear friend. He knew that Lazarus was very sick, yet Jesus deliberately
waited until after Lazarus had died to begin the journey from Galilee to
Bethany. And He took His sweet time about getting there—4 days! Why? Because
He knew exactly what He was going to do. He was going to raise Lazarus from
the dead right in front of a multitude of mourners. And before He did it He
told Mary and Martha, Lazarus’ sisters, “I am the Resurrection and the Life; he who believes in
Me shall live even if he dies, and everyone who lives and believes in Me shall
never die.”
Verse 51: When [Jesus] came to the house, He did not
allow anyone to enter with Him, except Peter and John and James, and the girl’s
father and mother.
·
As
they approached Jairus’ house they were met by a mob of people crying and
wailing, mourning for this little girl who had just died. Mark 5:38 says, “When they came
to the home of the synagogue ruler, Jesus saw a commotion, with people crying
and wailing loudly.” Matthew’s Gospel reports in 9:23 that the
professional mourners had already arrived (“flute players”) and they were
making a lot of noise. Jairus was a leader in the Jewish community and was
apparently well-loved. The little group of six made their way into the house.
There Jesus addressed the crowd that had gathered inside the house just outside
the bedroom where the body was resting.
Verse 52: Now they were all weeping and lamenting
for her; but He said, “Stop weeping, for she has not died, but is
asleep.”
·
Their
mouths must have all dropped to their chests! How could He say such a thing?
Didn’t He know a dead body when He saw one? Remember, these people lived with
death. They were used to seeing it. They knew a dead person when they saw one,
and this girl was definitely as dead as a doornail!
Verse 53: And they began laughing at Him, knowing that she had died.
·
This
was not happy, carefree laughter in the humorous sense, but rather laughter of
derision, scorn, and unbelief. They thought they knew better than Jesus. It was
this false “knowledge” that blinded their eyes to the truth of what was taking
place.
·
Some
have taken Jesus’ words about the child not being dead but asleep to mean that
she was not really dead, but only in a coma of some sort. However, skip down to
verse 55 and you will notice that it says, “…And her spirit returned…” making it clear that she
had been dead. Christ’s reference to death as sleep was intended to suggest
that the little girl’s condition was temporary, not permanent, and that
she would awaken from death. It is interesting that Jesus said the same thing
about Lazarus in John 11:11, 14 and he had been dead for 4 days by the time
Jesus showed up! He had even started to decompose and smell bad. Still, Jesus
said, “He is asleep.”
·
Something
else I find very interesting… the Early Church always described the believing
dead as “asleep in Jesus” (cf. 1
Thess. 4:14). Because of that, for a long time the Greek-speaking Christians
called their burial places, κοιμητήριον, “koimetérion” (sleeping
place, bedroom, resting place). From Greek this word was transliterated into
Latin as “coemetérium” with the same meaning, a sleeping place. It is
from this Latin word that we get our English word, “cemetery,” originally meaning a sleeping place for those who
have died in Christ. On the other hand, the English word, “graveyard” merely indicates a place
where holes were dug (graven) in the ground. For unbelievers that is all they
have to look forward to—a hole in the ground!
·
We
must remember that from the viewpoint of the Lord of the Universe physical
death was not that big of a deal. For us, death is the great enemy, the thing
that eventually defeats every one of us, but for the Lord Jesus it posed no
threat or difficulty.
Verse 54: He, however, took her by the hand and called,
saying, “Child, arise!”
·
Mark’s
account tells us in 5:40-41, “After He put them all out, He took the child’s father
and mother and the disciples who were with Him and went in where the child was.
41 He took her by the hand and said to her, ‘Talitha, koum!” (which
means, “Little girl, arise!”).”
·
“After He
put them all out…” meaning
the other relatives, friends, and professional mourners. The only ones He
allowed to go in to witness this miracle were the girl’s parents and three of
His disciples. Everyone else was sent outside the house to wait and see what
would happen.
·
Why
did Jesus do it this way? Maybe it was to cut down on the noise. Maybe it was
to calm the situation. I think that it was also because He wanted to emphasize
the result, not the means to the end. This was not about His technique
of raising dead people. This was about the fact that He is Lord of life, and is
Sovereign God in the flesh. He could have performed this miracle in any number
of different ways. He chose to do it merely by speaking to her and calling her
spirit to return to her body. In the process, He healed whatever illness had
caused her death in the first place. In an instant she was totally healed and
restored.
·
By
the way, Mark is the only one of the Gospel writers to give us Jesus’ exact
words. The Lord took her by the hand and spoke to her in Aramaic, “Talitha,
koum!” Those two gentle words simply mean, “Little girl, arise!” Mark inserts
the words, “I say unto you…” giving us a sense of the force of Jesus’
command. This was not a prayer, but rather, a command from the Sovereign Lord
of Heaven. Death had no choice but to give her up.
Verse 55: And her spirit returned, and she got up
immediately; and He gave orders for something to
be given her to eat.
·
Notice
the word, “Immediately…” It
didn’t take any time at all. It happened so fast that I’m sure the disciples
and her parents were totally taken aback. Mark tells us in 5:42, “Immediately the
girl stood up and walked around…At this they were completely astonished.”
I should say so! Can you imagine the joy that those parents felt? Can you hear
their voices lifted in praise to God? I can.
·
Why
did Jesus command that she be given food? Perhaps for two reasons:
1.
First,
because He knew that she had been ill for a while and had probably been unable
to eat. Now that she was healed she would be ravenously hungry.
2.
Second,
as a further proof that she was indeed alive, back from the dead. Jesus used
this same proof with His disciples after His own Resurrection (cf. Luke
24:41-43). He ate with them.
Verse 56: Her parents were amazed; but
He instructed them to tell no one what had happened.
·
Isn’t
this a curious thing? How were they going to keep this wonderful miracle a
secret? For one thing, Jairus’ house was surrounded by people waiting to hear
the news, good or bad, one way or another. And certainly, when his little girl
appeared, alive and happy and in perfect health, all the people were going to
want to know exactly what had happened. How could Jesus possibly expect these
grateful parents to obey this command to not tell anyone about this?
·
Some
have said that He did not want the parents to go out telling what had happened
in order to try and forestall a widespread furor that might precipitate a
crisis situation before it was time for Him to go to the cross. Others have
theorized that Jesus was using reverse psychology. By saying, “Don’t
you dare tell anyone about this,” He was secretly prompting them to
tell everyone. I don’t think so, however, because that would mean His commands
are not to be followed but to be interpreted, looking for hidden
meanings. I am sure He meant what He said, but they were weak and unable to
keep their mouths shut.
·
Matthew
reports what happened in 9:26, “And this news went out into all that land.”
Apparently, these happy parents were unable to keep a secret! Good news always
has a way of getting out!
CONCLUSION:
I love this story because I can relate to it on
so many levels. It cost Jairus to come to Jesus to ask for His help. We do not
know the end of the story, but I can imagine that it might have cost him his
position in the synagogue. We do not know what ever happened to the little girl
either, but I imagine that for the rest of her life she told everyone she met
the story of what Jesus had done for her.
After Lazarus was raised from the
dead (cf. John 11) we know that he became a fearless witness for Christ, so
much so that the Jewish leaders decided to kill him too, just to get him out of
the way. John 12:9-11 says, “Meanwhile a large crowd of Jews found out that Jesus was
there [in Bethany at the home of Mary, Martha, and Lazarus] and came, not only
because of [Jesus] but also to see Lazarus, whom He had raised from the dead. 10
So the chief priests made plans to kill Lazarus as well, 11 for
on account of him many of the Jews were going over to Jesus and putting their
faith in Him.”
You may think that you do not have a
dramatic story to tell. Jesus did not save you from a life of crime, or drugs,
or prostitution, or violence. Maybe you came to faith in Jesus as a child at
VBS, or in Sunday School, or kneeling at your mother’s bedside. What you need
to understand is that you too were dead, and Jesus brought you to life. You
were “dead
in trespasses and sins” and Jesus raised you to newness of life and
made you a new creation. You were a lost lamb and Jesus came and found you. You
were a child of the devil and Jesus saved you and made you a child of God and a
joint-heir with Christ. Do not ever sell your conversion short! It cost God
just as much to save you as it did to save Jairus’ daughter or the very worst
of sinners!
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